I am on the island of Kauai, my hair has had a lot of sand and tiny sea shells in it from visits to the beach. Just recently I was on the shores and as I was leaving I slightly jumped and asked a friend, hey! is there sand in my hair? She said no, that it was on my face. Thank goodness. After weeks of wash and rinse most of the tiny shells and sands have come out of my dreads. This journey with my wild hair has inspired this poem. There is something about hair that is so important to me. I am reminded of Samson. I am remembering black folk tales of hair and how folks would say watch who you let touch your hair. So in honor of these deeply curly antennae …
Black Girls Hair
Your hair stands on top of your head my child
it points in all directions
sponges suck the water up
don’t let it be too dry
antennas for the heavens
speak of cosmically
wrap them up and hide them underneath beautiful decorated cloth
or t-shirts you don’t want to wear anymore
or hide them in a sun hat, brim level to your eye
big huge hair you’ve got my girl
dress it in oil
smell likes coconuts
smells like chocolate
smells like dirt
is that sea shells trying to escape from the beach
dry them out
shake them roughly
use your nails
clean your scalp
and please take care your hair
I am remembering this song by Regina Spektor as well